About Sean
I've spent much of my life trying to understand what makes people do what they do.
And, perhaps more interestingly, why they so often don't do what they know they should.
I studied psychology at Princeton University, where I also competed as an All-American shot putter. Looking back, those two pursuits had more in common than I realized at the time.
Both were about human potential. What makes people perform? What gets in their way? Why can two equally capable people achieve such different results?
Those questions have followed me through a rather unconventional career.
I've spent time on both sides of the coaching conversation.
I've built businesses, led sales teams, co-founded a real estate brokerage, and spent years responsible for the growth and performance of hundreds of professionals.
I've also spent close to two decades coaching, including nearly 2,000 hours of individual coaching and hundreds of workshops and presentations.
For more than six years, I coached with Tom Ferry International, working with business owners, sales leaders, and high-performing professionals across the country.
I've experienced the challenges of leadership firsthand. Making payroll. Making difficult decisions. Managing people. Watching talented individuals struggle with things that seemed obvious from the outside.
And I've discovered that the things that seem obvious from the outside rarely feel quite so obvious from the inside.
The most interesting obstacle usually isn't what people think it is.
Most capable business owners don't suffer from a shortage of information.
They've read the books, attended the conferences, hired the consultants, and built the plans.
They generally know a great deal about what they should be doing.
But knowing and doing aren't the same thing.
Sometimes the obstacle is a habit. Sometimes it's an assumption that's never been questioned. Sometimes it's a belief about who we are, what we're capable of, or what other people expect of us.
And sometimes it's a story we've been telling ourselves for so long that we've stopped recognizing it as a story.
That's where coaching gets interesting.
I ask a lot of questions.
Some are because I genuinely want to understand something better.
Others are because I've noticed something you might not have noticed yet, and I believe you'll get more from discovering it yourself than from having me announce the answer.
I'm not interested in being the smartest person in the conversation.
I'm interested in helping you see something differently.
That doesn't mean every conversation will be comfortable. We may challenge assumptions, question decisions, or examine patterns that have been around for years.
But the purpose isn't confrontation. It's discovery.
And discovery only matters when it leads to doing something differently.
I believe there's always another chapter.
Outside coaching, I've spent years pursuing challenges that required patience, discipline, and a willingness to discover my own limitations.
I've competed at a national level in track and field, completed two Ironman triathlons, and spent a considerable amount of time building things with my hands.
Different pursuits, but a recurring lesson: progress rarely happens in a straight line, and there's almost always more to learn.
I don't believe meaningful growth ends at a particular age, career milestone, or level of success.
There's always something worth examining, something worth improving, and another possibility worth pursuing.
That's what keeps me curious.
And it's what I hope to bring to every coaching relationship.